Do you feel that you have some unique personal challenges that may hold you back in your career? Maybe it is your age, your nationality, education or personal circumstances.
Peter Falk was one of my favorite actors, he was famous as the story telling grandfather in the cult classic movie The Princess Bride & as Lieutenant Columbo, the cigar chewing, rumpled trench detective from the acclaimed television show Colombo. When I was growing up, I have memories of my parents watching his show on Sunday nights. His famous line, “Just one more thing…” was also the name of his biography. This statement was a key way he introduced a simple additional question, which usually lead to solving the crime.
Peter Falk lost his right eye to cancer when he was 3. He was ridiculed as a child, but by the end of high school, was voted class president. He went on to do a Masters of Public Administration with the intent of becoming a public servant, a career which he later described as “having no interest and no aptitude for.” When he finished his job as a public servant, he would act in local theater until encouraged by a director “to quit his day job, and do something he could be great at.”
Peter was slightly cross-eyed, somewhat awkward and was not particularly handsome, not an ideal combination for an actor. Studio boss Harry Cohn said to him “Why should I hire you, when for the same price I can get an actor with 2 eyes?” Peter found strength in his uniqueness and stood out with his sense of humor, an inquisitive mind and incredible talent. He went on to have an enduring career as an actor including being directed by Stephen Spielberg. You may relate to Peter the underdog; you might have some challenges in your own career.
Three key things stand out as I think of Peter’s success.
1. Find strength in your uniqueness and embrace who you are. Don’t get in your own way, and use your challenges as an excuse, find beauty and strength and usefulness in them.
2. Accept the mysteries in your life, and ask the unexpected questions. ‘Just one more thing’, was a way for Peter to inquire and find solutions and opportunities where others were confused.
3. Nurture wisdom and humor in your life. In Peter’s obituary, his daughters expressed that they were going to miss his humor and wisdom – two very important elements for anyone to have a successful career and life.
Peter, was a wonderful example of how to overcome personal challenges, find creative solutions and reap the rewards of a long and engaging career.
Continue the conversation on our Facebook page. What have you learned in the process of overcoming challenges in your career?
This weeks CareerPoll: What is your biggest challenge with following through on opportunities?
Looking for help with your personal brand ? Who’s your career coach? Ne
ed help with a professional resume, job search , and interview preparation? Invest in yourself & get the edge in this competitive job market. Take a small step and book an initial coaching session.
Just one more thing, along the road with you!